I figured a fun way to start my slightly kinky, slightly fashion and all about me blog would be to post my BDSM Checklist along with some on my Likes and Dislikes; so it's easy to find and update!
____________________________________________________________________________
Joi Irui's BDSM Checklist
Lasted Updated on 1/02/2014
____________________________________________________________________________
My Soft Limits:
1] Being transformed into something humiliating, like a pig, cow or anything gross.
My Hard Limits:
1] Blindfolds & Blindfold HUDS
2] Not having my restraints unlocked and keys returned after a scene. I will log onto a non-RLV viewer and remove them. Extended scenes need to be discussed in advanced.
3] Anything to do with Scat or Vomit.
4] Being sold or given to a Domme/Dom I do not know.
5] No permanent transformations.
6] I will not do anything against the SL TOS
My Likes:
1] Face Slaps
2] Rubber, Latex & Leather Clothing & Bondage
3] Pony & Puppy Play
4] Light to Heavy Bondage
5] Mild to Medium Pain
6] Serving as a maid, art or furniture
7] Being Spanked
My Dislikes:
1] Extreme Humiliation
2] Excessive Vanilla Sex or excessive sex in D/s scenes
3] Being Caged/Locked up and Ignored
4] Ass Stuff, I don't mind Anal or Butt Plugs..but I don't care for Rimming or being sat on.
5] Prostitution
____________________________________________________________________________
Willingness Key:
NO FUCKING WAY will I do that item under ANY circumstances (a hard limit).
0 No desire, don't like, will permit if special to Dom (a soft limit).
1 Don't want to do, but will.
2 Willing to do, but has no special appeal.
3 Usually LIKE doing, on an irregular/ occasional basis.
4 LIKE doing, would like it on a regular basis.
5 WILD TURN-ON, would like it as often as possible
____________________________________________________________________________
Experience|Willingness|Notes
____________________________________________________________________________
Abrasion Yes|3
Age play Yes|No
Anal sex Yes|2
Anal plugs (small) Yes|4
Anal plugs (large) Yes|3
Anal plug (public, under clothes) Yes|3
Animal roles Yes|3
Arm & leg sleeves (arm binders) Yes|5
Aromas No|2
Asphyxiation Yes|3
Auctioned for charity No|No
Bathroom use control Yes|2
Bestiality Yes|3
Beating (soft) Yes|4
Beating (hard) Yes|4
Blindfolds Yes|No
Being serviced (sexual) Yes|3
Being bitten Yes|5
Boot worship Yes|4
Bondage (light) Yes|5
Bondage (heavy) Yes|5
Bondage (multi-day) Yes|4
Bondage (public, under clothing) Yes|4
Branding Yes|3
Breast/chest bondage Yes|4
Breast whipping Yes|3
Breath control Yes|3
Brown showers (scat) Yes|No
Bruises Yes|4
Cages (locked inside of) Yes|3
Caning Yes|4
Castration fantasy No|No
Catheterization No|2
Cattle prod (electrical toy) Yes|3
Cells/Closets (locked inside of) Yes|3
Chains Yes|3
Chamber-pot use No|1
Chastity belts (short term) Yes|3
Chastity belts (multi-day) Yes|2
Chauffeuring (driving) No|2
Choking Yes|2
Chores (domestic service) Yes|3
Clothespins Yes|3
Cock worship Yes|1
Collars (worn in private) Yes|5
Collars (worn in public) Yes|5
Competitions (with other Subs) Yes|2
Corsets (wearing casually) Yes|5
Corsets (trained waist reduction) Yes|5
Cross-dressing No|2
Cuffs (leather) Yes|4
Cuffs (metal) Yes|4
Cutting Yes|3
Diapers (wearing) No|1
Diapers (wetting) No|1
Diapers (soiling) No|No
Dilation No|1
Dildoes Yes|4
Double penetration Yes|3
Electricity Yes|3
Enemas (for cleansing) Yes|3
Enemas (retention/punishment) No|3
Enforced chastity No|3
Erotic dance (for audience) Yes|4
Examinations (physical) Yes|5
Exercise (forced/required) No|2
Exhibitionism (friends) Yes|4
Exhibitionism (strangers) Yes|4
Eye contact restrictions No|2
Face slapping Yes|5
Fantasy abandonment No|No
Fantasy rape Yes|3
Fantasy gang rape No|2
Fear (being scared) Yes|2
Fisting (anal) No|1
Fisting (vaginal) Yes|2
Flame play Yes|3
Following orders Yes|4
Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...) No|No
Foot worship Yes|2
Forced bedwetting No|1
Forced dressing Yes|4
Forced eating No|1
Forced homosexuality No|1
Forced heterosexuality N/A
Forced masturbation Yes|2
Forced nudity (private) Yes|3
Forced nudity (around others) Yes|3
Forced servitude Yes|4
Forced smoking Yes|2
Full head hoods Yes|5
Gags (cloth) Yes|4
Gags (inflatable) Yes|4
Gags (phallic) Yes|2
Gags (rubber) Yes|5
Gags (tape) Yes|4
Gas masks Yes|5
Gates of Hell (male) N/A
Genital sex Yes|3
Given away to another Dom (temp) No|1
Given away to another Dom (perm) No|No
Golden showers Yes|2
Gun play Yes|3
Hairbrush spankings Yes|5
Hair pulling Yes|5
Hand jobs/Fingering (giving) Yes|3
Hand jobs/Fingering (receiving) Yes|3
Harems (serving w/other subs) Yes|3
Harnessing (leather) Yes|5
Harnessing (rope) Yes|5
Having food chosen for you No|2
Having clothing chosen for you Yes|5
Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) Yes|3
Head (recv fellatio/cunnilingus) Yes|3
High heel wearing Yes|5
High heel worship Yes|4
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) No|1
Hoods Yes|4
Hot oils (on genitals) No|2
Hot waxing Yes|3
Housework (doing) Yes|3
Human puppy dog Yes|4
Humiliation (private) Yes|3
Humiliation (public) Yes|3
Hypnotism Yes|5
Ice cubes No|2
Immobilization Yes|4
Infantilism No|2
Initiation rites No|2
Injections Yes|3
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage Yes|5
Interrogations Yes|3
Kidnapping Yes|3
Kneeling Yes|5
Knife play Yes|4
Leather clothing Yes|4
Leather restraints Yes|4
Lectures for misbehavior Yes|2
Licking (non-sexual) No|2
Lingerie (wearing) Yes|2
Manacles & Irons No|2
Manicures (giving) Yes|2
Massage (giving) Yes|3
Massage (receiving) Yes|4
Medical scenes Yes|5
Modeling for erotic photos Yes|3
Mouth bits Yes|5
Mummification Yes|4
Name change (for scene) Yes|3
Name change (legal, permanent) No|No
Nipple clamps Yes|3
Nipple rings (piercing) Yes|3
Nipple play/"torture" Yes|3
Nipple weights Yes|3
Oral/anal play (rimming) Yes|1
Over-the-knee spanking Yes|5
Orgasm denial Yes|3
Orgasm control Yes|3
Outdoor scenes Yes|3
Outdoor sex Yes|3
Pain (mild) Yes|5
Pain (medium) Yes|5
Pain (severe) Yes|4
Persona training (in scene) Yes|4
Personality modification (RL) No|No
Phone sex (serving Dom) Yes|No
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends) No|No
Phone sex (commercial provider) No|No
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) Yes|3
Piercing (permanent) Yes|3
Plastic surgery Yes|3
Prison scenes Yes|3
Prostitution (public pretense) Yes\No
Prostitution (actual) No|No
Pony slave Yes|5
Public exposure Yes|3
Punishment Scene Yes|3
Pussy/cock whipping Yes|3
Pussy worship Yes|3
Riding crops Yes|4
Riding the "horse" (crotch torture) Yes|2
Rituals Yes|3
Religious scenes Yes|2
Restrictive rules on behavior Yes|3
Rubber/latex clothing Yes|5
Rope body harness Yes|5
Saran wrapping Yes|2
Scarification Yes|3
Scratching - getting Yes|3
Scratching - giving Yes|3
Sensory deprivation Yes|5
Serving Yes|5
Serving as art Yes|5
Serving as ashtray Yes|1
Serving as furniture Yes|5
Serving as a maid Yes|4
Serving as toilet (urine) Yes|No
Serving as toilet (feces) Yes|No
Serving as waitress/waiter Yes|3
Serving orally (sexual) Yes|3
Serving other doms (supervised) Yes|3
Serving other doms (unsupervised) Yes|2
Sexual deprivation (short term) Yes|3
Sexual deprivation (long term) Yes|3
Shaving (body hair) No|2
Shaving (genital hair) No|2
Shaving (head hair) No|No
Skinny-dipping Yes|3
Sleep deprivation Yes|2
Sleepsacks Yes|5
Slutty clothing (private) Yes|5
Slutty clothing (public) Yes|5
Spandex clothing Yes|4
Spanking Yes|5
Speech restrictions (when, what) Yes|2
Speculums (Anal) No|No
Speculums (vaginal) Yes|2
Spitting Yes|2
Spreader bars Yes|3
Standing in corner Yes|2
Stocks Yes|3
Straight jackets Yes|5
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) Yes|1
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) Yes|3
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) Yes|3
Strapping (full body beating) Yes|3
Suspension (upright) Yes|5
Suspension (inverted) Yes|5
Suspension (horizontal) Yes|5
Supplying new partners for Dom No|No
Swallowing feces No|No
Swallowing semen Yes|1
Swallowing urine Yes|1
Swapping (with one other couple) Yes|1
Swinging (multiple couples) Yes|1
Tampon Training (in ass) No|No
Tattooing Yes|3
Teasing Yes|3
TENS No|2
Thumb cuffs (metal) No|2
Tickling Yes|2
Triple penetration Yes|1
Uniforms Yes|4
Including others Yes|2
Vaginal dildo Yes|3
Verbal humiliation Yes|3
Vibrator on genitals Yes|4
Violet Wand (electrical toy) Yes|3
Voyeurism (watching others) Yes|3
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) No|1
Video (watching others) Yes|1
Video (recordings of you) No|1
Water torture No|1
Waxing (hair removal) Yes|1
Wearing symbolic jewelry Yes|5
Weight gain (forced) No|No
Weight loss (forced) No|No
Whipping Yes|2
Wooden paddles Yes|4
Wrestling Yes|3
____________________________________________________________________________
Body Stuff:
- Shape: My Own Shape (Not For Sale)
- Skin:. Birdy. Audrey Skin ~Pure~ [SLURL]
- Eyes: Chus! Judas Lenses [SLURL]
- Hair: Tukinowaugma Tyako [SLURL]
- Hands: Slink Mesh Hand Casual [SLURL]
Clothing:
- Dress: !LW Dragon Hat & Black Gown Combo [SLURL]
- Catsuit: !LW !Gloss! Catsuit Black[SLURL]
- Shoes: Dark Wing Milani V2 No Heel High Platform Boots [SLURL]
Accessories:
- Collar: Kinky Designs QUEEN-BITCH Neck Corset black latex [SLURL]
- Makeup: Lovely Disarray - The Geisha Concept [SLURL]
- Kimono Parts: Tuty's Black stunning latex Kimono [SLURL]
- Obi: My Obi (Not For Sale)
- Hair Kanzashi : :Joiful: Geo Gem Kanzashi [MP]
- Nail Polish: Orc Inc. : Slink Avatar Enhancement Nails - Rich Set 1 [SLURL] [MP]
